Am I Being Too Sexual?
When we are in the depths of addiction, it's hard for us to realize how much our sexual issues have hurt other people. We may have been so focused on our sexual highs that we never stopped to consider whether or not we were being selfish and inconsiderate in vietsub sex movies with content. We may even have been so numb to our feelings at the time that we couldn't have cared less about who was affected by our choices or behaviors. It's only when we get sober and the fog begins to lift that we can see the wreckage that lies behind us. Addiction is a selfish disease because it slowly replaces all meaningful connections with people, places, and things with just one thing—our drug of choice. It slowly becomes impossible for us to put anyone's needs before our own as long as getting high is involved...
When we are in the depths of addiction, it's hard for us to realize how much our sexual issues have hurt other people.
It is hard for us to realize how much our sexual issues have
hurt others. Our addictive disease has caused so much pain and brokenness in our
families that we often don't even see it or feel the effects of it anymore.
It's like being submerged in water: the longer you are under, the harder it
becomes to see what is happening above you. Your perspective changes greatly
when you're in this state because everything feels different when your life is
out of balance.
The truth is that when we use drugs or alcohol, we act out sexually—and often these actions do not come from a place of love or respect for ourselves or others! They come from desperation and fear...which means they are only going to make things worse as time goes on (and with each subsequent use). This can cause you more pain than ever before...and just like with any other form of addiction, this pain will only intensify over time if left unchecked by professional help and support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) or Narcotics Anonymous (NA).
We may have been so focused on our sexual highs that we never stopped to consider whether or not we were being selfish and inconsiderate.
Healthy sex life can be one of the most important parts of day-to-day happiness. It’s a great way to connect with your partner, relieve stress, and feel good about yourself. But sometimes we may have been so focused on our sexual highs that we never stopped to consider whether or not we are being selfish and inconsiderate. We may have been so numb to our feelings at the time that we couldn't have cared less about who was affected by our choices or behaviors. Do you remember someone making you uncomfortable? Do you remember feeling like they were taking advantage of their position in some way? If so, did anything change after that moment?
We may even have been so numb to our feelings at the time that we couldn't have cared less about who was affected by our choices or behaviors.
We may have been so numb to our feelings at the time that we couldn't have cared less about who was affected by our choices or behaviors. We were selfish and inconsiderate, not caring about anyone but ourselves. We didn’t think about consequences or the effects of our actions on others, only what would make us feel good at that moment.
It's only when we get sober and the fog begins to lift that we can see the wreckage that lies behind us.
It's only when we get sober and the fog begins to lift that
we can see the wreckage that lies behind us. Why? Because of our inability to
understand what is happening in our own heads. We think we are acting rationally, but really we are acting selfishly.
It's true: when you act selfishly, you hurt others. You may
not intend to do so, but if your actions result in another person feeling pain
or discomfort or shame (even if it's just a little bit of it), then no matter
how well-meaning your intention was, you've still done harm. And though it's
never okay to knowingly harm someone else, sometimes even unintentional harm
can be difficult for us to deal with emotionally because we don't want other
people knowing what kind of person they've been dating/marrying/sleeping with
all these years!

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